没有人，不想幸福地生活，不想快乐的活着，然而，现实总是不尽如人意，我们左右不了幸福，也手握不住人生，因为痛苦，烦恼总是不期而至，令我们措手不及，但是，我们可以选择善待自己。

No one don't want to live happily. However, the reality is always unsatisfactory. We can't control happiness, and we can't hold on to life. Because pain and trouble always come unexpectedly, we are caught off guard. However, we can choose to be kind to ourselves.