有人说，学会推开自己喜欢的东西叫做成长。长大也许是一个不断接受失去的过程。所谓成熟，不是学会表达，而是学会咽下，当你一点一点学会克制住很多东西，才能驾驭好人生。

Some people say that learning to push aside what you like is growth. Growing up is a process of constant acceptance of loss. Maturity means not learning to express, but learning to swallow, when you learn to restrain a lot of things little by little, you can control life well.