生活岂能百般如意，正因有了遗漏和缺憾，我们才会有所追寻。所谓安宁，就是在追求自己所想要的生活的时候，能不卑不亢地一边失去，一边寻找。

How can life be all right, It is precisely because of the omissions and shortcomings that we will have to pursue. The so-called tranquility means that when pursuing the life you want, you can lose it and look for it without abasement and arrogance.