接纳自己的不完美需要勇气，而接纳自己的不完美然后追寻自己想要的改变，则是一种智慧。很多时候，我们之所以活得累而不快乐，是因为太贪心，企图消灭掉自己生命里的缺陷，方方面面都做到极致，却忽略了人生来本就不同，生命本就有缺憾。人生重要的不是治愈，而是习惯了带着伤痛，逆着光，背着光在适合自己的道路上前行。

It takes courage to accept one's imperfections, and wisdom to accept one's imperfections and then pursue the changes one wants. Many times, the reason why we are tired and unhappy is that we are too greedy to try to eliminate the defects in our lives. We have achieved the ultimate in every aspect, but neglected that life is different from the original, and life has its own shortcomings. The important thing in life is not to cure, but to get used to moving forward with pain, against light and back light on the road that suits you.